A young Nigerian man tells how he was once labeled 'Bob the Builder' after sharing his plans for the future with him. girlfriend.
A post by X (ex-Twitter) user @khalid_iyal has fueled the debate. Transparency in relationshipsEspecially related to finance.
Khalid's post advocated open and honest discussions with partners about financial viability, saying, “Why can't we just sit down and have an honest conversation with women? Like, 'Babe, here's where I stand financially, I have this investment, this salary or this capital. I have this for you. And they can, but there are things I can't afford right now, can we build?''
The post quickly gained traction, with many users debating the practicality of such openness. In response, another user, @khobbytrapp shared his experience, Caution against this approach.
He wrote, “Tried it last year, it took one [screenshot] And sent it to a friend with the tag 'Bob the Builder'. If she is not your wife then don't worry bro, women are not made like that in this generation.
The exchange has drawn mixed reactions, with some consumers citing transparency as essential to trust, while others say caution is needed in financial discussions, especially in extramarital relationships.