Studies show that powerful people are not great lovers and cheat more.

On the big screen or in romance novels, they are portrayed as strong, passionate, and endlessly desirable. But new research suggests that the reality behind power may not be so romantic, especially when it comes to loyalty in relationships.

A recent study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior revealed a surprising link between power and infidelity.

The study explores how power dynamics in intimate relationships can increase the likelihood of cheating. The findings suggest that power, whether in the form of wealth, influence or social status, can significantly alter an individual's self-perception and behavior in romantic relationships, increasing the risk of infidelity.

Power and Confidence: A Dangerous Link

The results of the study indicated that individuals who felt more powerful than others in their relationships developed a sense of increased trust. However, this self-esteem can make them feel entitled to pursue other romantic or sexual opportunities. Researchers suggest that people with a high sense of power perceive themselves as more desirable and believe that they have other options than being in a relationship, which may lead to breaking their commitment to their partner. are

People who see themselves as more powerful believe that they have something more valuable to offer than their partners. This sense of superiority leads them to think that they are actually entitled to other relationships, especially if they believe that they are more desirable or potentially more able to attract others.

Gender does not play a role

Interestingly, the study also disproved the long-held hypothesis that men are more prone to cheating than women. In early studies, it was often shown that because of their higher social status and productive opportunities, men were considered more vulnerable to cheating. Here, however, the study reported no significant gender differences in the likelihood of infidelity when power was included as a factor. Both men and women in positions of power were equally likely to stray when they perceived themselves to be more desirable or to have more power outside their relationships.

The dark side of power

Strength makes one more attractive and confident. However, it is fraught with relationship risks. The qualities that make someone successful or influential—such as confidence and a sense of entitlement—can also make them more likely to renege on promises they make to their partners. They may feel as if they have “better options” or that someone else will always be available to meet their every need, which erodes the foundation of trust and loyalty in the relationship.

The study findings highlight the importance of understanding how power dynamics can shape behaviors and perceptions within intimate relationships. While not everyone in a position of power will cheat, the likelihood increases when that power affects how they view themselves and their relationships.

Although power may look attractive on the outside, it has potentially devastating effects on personal relationships. People with power often exude confidence and a sense of entitlement, which can make them more likely to cheat. For those in relationships, it's clear that feeling powerful can boost confidence in the short term, but it can create serious problems for long-term commitment and loyalty.